Self criticism can be a helpful tool but for many people it can be damaging, pulling us away from the things that matter most to us or slowing us down with anxiety or depression. A wealth of research shows however that we can learn to manage overly self critical thoughts and feelings using self compassion.
However, many of us are resistant to self-compassion.
Check out this awesome study in which they used an immersive virtual reality scenario. Participants interacted compassionately with a crying virtual child while embodied in a virtual adult body.
In the second phase, one group of participants then embodied the child body and could experience a recording of their compassionate gestures and words being delivered to them from this (child) embodied first-person perspective.
By having participants embody an adult and then a child virtual body in succession, our scenario effectively provided a self-to-self situation enabling participants to deliver compassionate sentiments and statements to themselves.
Fascinating stuff.
Participants of the study had three 8 minute virtual reality exposures each one week apart, at the end of the three experiences. 60% of the 15 participants reported decreased depression symptoms a month later.
Self compassion is a skill that can be learned to help live life more meaningfully, and is a core part of acceptance and commitment therapy.
http://www.spring.org.uk/2016/02/depression-treated-24-minutes-new-therapy.php
Full study here – http://bjpo.rcpsych.org/content/2/1/74
